Getting Off

by Autumn Seave

676px-wet_t-shirt.jpgOk - everybody masturbates, whether they do it with great joy and as often as they can or whether it is with guilt and trepidation and only when they can no longer fight the urge. I feel bad for people whose masturbation is full of guilt but for many it is still that way. But that’s not what I wanted to talk about - I’ll save that for another time.

What I want to know is what do you think about when you masturbate? I always thought that everyone fantasized while they were masturbating but apparently that is not so. I especially hear a lot of men that say they just concentrate on getting off. Even for some women it is purely a means of “scratching an itch”. Not for me.

When I masturbate, I like to have the time to fully get into it. I like to know that I am alone and won’t be interrupted (although sometimes after writing an especially hot scene in a story I have to sneak into the bathroom with my magic bullet while the kids are busy elsewhere in the house and I have to concentrate on finding some quick release!) and completely get into a fantasy. Which is where a lot of my story ideas come from. I like to play with different settings - the park, a back alley, a hot tub, a restaurant kitchen, a bar… but almost always, the activities are very similar.

I usually get started with me and my boyfriend in a very public place where there are usually several men around for spectators. Sometimes women too, but in my fantasies it is usually men that get me off. If there are women there, they usually have a strap on. My boyfriend usually gets me to start playing with myself. Or he’ll tell me to randomly approach someone and ask them to suck my tits. In my fantasies he wants me to show everyone what a naughty little slut I am. Of course, it progresses into a hot little gang bang scene with me as the center of attention. It almost always ends in anal penetration or if I’m in the mood for it, a double penetration.

Reality? It’s not going to happen. I don’t think I could handle it. But fantasy-wise it really turns me on.

So what is fodder for your fantasies? At what point in your fantasy are you going to come in real life (for me it is always the point of anal penetration). Are the people in your fantasies people you know or complete strangers or celebrities?

3 Responses to “Getting Off”

  1. Angie Says:

    I don’t understand how people 1. don’t fantasize and 2. have masturbated for years and never had an O!

    I have 3 fantasies that are ‘easy’ to get me off. But, I usually try to come up with something else before I rely on my tried and true. Usually completely fictitious people..or whomever was the last man I was with…

    1. I live in a townhouse nextdoor to really hot people. One day i’m in the basement and the bookshelf that lines the wall opens up and the wife is giving me this sultry look with her finger on her lips. ssshhhh…. she waves me into a dark tunnel behind the bookcase. Inside is a huge bed and we end up with each other….again and again…in our hidden world.

    Maybe I’ll come back later and post the other 2!

  2. Autumn Seave Says:

    That sound so awesome! Could I use that as a basis for a story?

  3. Angie Says:

    Of course!

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