Born to Be Sexy

by Autumn Seave

There are many different ways that people define sexy - curvy, thin, nice boobs, nice ass, long legs, great smile, etc. I think that is where our society goes wrong. They have to define everything. But the thing is most of all of our beliefs are in our mind and if its in our mind we tend to assume that it is in everyone else’s mind as well.

That simply isn’t true. Think about this for a second. What is your definition of a perfect 10? Get an image in your mind or think of someone you know or a celebrity that is your idea of a perfect 10. Now, the next time you are with your friends. See if even one of you can agree on who in the vacinity is a perfect 10. I’ll bet you can’t do it.

When you look at a girl and say, “Damn - now that is a pefect 10!” I can almost that one of your buddies will say, “You’ve got to be joking!” Some of the others will say, “Ya she’s kinda cute, but not a 10.” One or two of them might even agree that she’s pretty hot, “…but maybe an 8 or a 9.” Your view of the perfect 10 is all in your mind.

Once you know that your view is all in your mind you can get over it. You can change your perceptions by knowing that it is only your opinion and that there are other ways to think of it.

This is what I mean by defining sexy. Because we allow ourselves to think that there is a definition we are influenced by it. But that doesn’t make it fact.

Personally, I find bald, hairy, larger-than-average sized men sexier than hell. Not necessarily all at once but the combination can be pretty hot. Most of my girlfriends think I’m nuts. One of my friends is totally hot for the guy she calls the DILF. He’s skinny as a rail and has hair down to his ass. Not my cup of tea.

Sexy is how you think, not how you look. And if you know that someone thinks you’re sexy, you think sexy. If you know that someone is enjoying the sight of your full butt swaying down the street, you feel pretty hot. Presto, you’re sexy. Not just to those who think you’re sexy but others as well.

Know that everyone is born to be sexy - society just knocks the shit out of that knowledge until we’re all a bunch of doubting Thomases.

Think sexy thoughts everyone. Know that you’re sexy and you’ll be it.

Be well all.


2 Responses to “Born to Be Sexy”

  1. JillM Says:

    I agree…Thankfully everyone has different opinions on sexy! How boring would it be if we were all attracted to the same type?

  2. Autumn Seave Says:

    No kidding! It’s too bad more people don’t see that.

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