The Seven Deadly Sins in Bed: Envy
If you think your partner is cheating on you, go ahead and be jealous. After all, jealousy is not one of the seven deadly sins. People use “jealousy” and “envy” to mean the same thing, but really they’re not. Jealousy is that fear you get that you’re somehow going to lose what you’ve got or that emptiness you feel when you are worried about being inferior. Envy, on the other hand, is that longing feeling when you don’t have something that you really, really want. You are jealous of the cute girl at the party flirting with your man. The cute girl at the party envies you for having landed the man of your dreams.
But enough about definitions. I want to talk about sex.
In the bedroom, sex is all about that spark, that passion. If you don’t have that, you don’t have anything. And it can be really hard to feel that spark if you don’t have a match.
What do I mean? Well, the “match” in the bedroom is your first move. Even married couples have to have a match. If no one makes a move, you’ll just end up lying in bed with a boner…and nobody wants that.
Yes, this all goes back to envy. Do you wish you had a bigger, thicker, harder penis like the last guy she was with must have had? Do you wish your boobs were larger, rounder, and perkier, like the girls you’ve seen in pornos? Do you wish you were better in bed?
All you have to do to be better in bed is stop being so envious of everyone else having sex. We all get so hung up sometimes on what we don’t have that we forget about what we do have. Just go for it already.
And stop being envious of the guy you know who seems to get any girl he wants. I don’t care if you’re 4 feet tall with bad skin and a small dick. You can be that guy if you really want to be. You know that girl who had about ten guys try to buy her a drink at the bar? You can be that girl, even if you’re overweight with crooked teeth and bad haircut.
It comes back to what I’ve talked about again and again - confidence. A little confidence, and you won’t have envy anyone else ever again.
Edit from Aurora: I’ve moved! Cum visit me at Between My Sheets!
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