Golden Showers
I found a kinda cool new site that some of you might enjoy called Dear Sugar. Dear Sugar features advice on a wide range of subjects, including sex. This particular advice column is about Golden Showers. The person who wanted advice says her boyfriend wanted her to pee on him for his birthday.
Dear Sugar gave some pretty good advice. She suggested setting limitations and that’s always a good idea upon trying something new. Limitations are good and let your partner know where you stand. Sometimes people who are trying something new like to use a safeword. It’s a good idea to make it something you wouldn’t normally say but something you’ll easily remember.
It’s also a good idea to get familiar with your partner’s requests, in this case, golden showers. If they are asking you to give them a golden shower or they’re asking to give you one, you should be familiar with what you’re getting into. Find out what it involves to them, how they’d go about doing it. Then look it up on the internet. Read about it, watch some videos, maybe read a story or two (there are stories about everything!). Then search for some educational sites.
If after all this, you are still comfortable, you are under no obligation to go ahead with it. Never do anything that you aren’t comfortable with.
If you’re interested in golden showers, here are some starting point links for you:
Gay Water Sports and Golden Showers
Wiki After Dark - Give a Golden Shower ** This one especially recommended, good info!
Literotica Story - A Golden Moment
July 25th, 2007 at 10:45 am
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