Fellatio, Round 2
So, you’re comfortable. It’s a good thing, because it looks like you’ve been waiting a few days for the next step!
It’s my preference to not use a condom for oral sex, but depending on how well acquainted you are with your partner safety may be imperative. So before the next step, put on a condom–now! If you like, you can leave it to the man to do. Thought he’ll be completely enthralled if you can put it on for him–using your mouth. There are some flavored condoms (Lifestyles makes a Kiss O’ Mint) that keep the taste of latex from ruining the mood.
Tip #2: Angles
There are several things that you can do to stimulate and make varied your partner’s experience. Some angles depend on the position you and your partner have selected.
- Kneeling before him gives you great flexibility. By changing your height, you can either focus on the natural contour of his erection or position yourself slightly below him so that as he recedes from you the tip of his shaft travels the roof of your mouth. Pay attention to his reaction, to gauge which brings the most pleasure and alternate between the two.
- Perched above him as he reclines allows you to move the most freely about him. And, moving freely allows you to suck at him from the side, or from a reverse position (with your tongue focusing on the top of his shaft, rather than the underneath).
- With your head off of the edge of the bed, you’re positioning yourself for the greatest amount of entry. This position naturally elongates your throat, making your gag reflex the only thing you need to tackle.
Next tip: Working with what you’ve got (teeth, spit, tongue, and pressure)
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November 30th, 2006 at 1:29 pm
Well, my next question is: do you give demonstrations of your technique?
I think there was a woman on HBO’s “Real Sex” who gave seminars with fruit and dildos. Me thinks there’s a second career here for you.
November 30th, 2006 at 3:14 pm
That would be quite a podcast, wouldn’t it?
November 30th, 2006 at 5:37 pm
Well, the new iPods are now set up for video, so I’m sure that’s only a matter of time.
If you ever need an audience for one of the demos, you can count on me. And C. would make a very good “guest demonstrator,” as her technique is about as good as I’ve ever known.
October 28th, 2007 at 3:16 am
Blowjob is the best thing you can receive, a man opinion