Blushing Ladie’s Journal Meme
You’ve had a great day and are in the mood; your partner isn’t…
Can you get them in the mood?
Well, considering we’ve only been together for a little bit more than a year and only married about a month, yes, I can get him in the mood.
If so, how?
Gentle tickling, rubbing his hand, a little lick to the ear … and if all that fails, I simply take off my clothes! 
If not, do you take matters into your own hands? And what props (toys, books, movies) do you use?
If it was really urgent, yes, I’d take matters into my own hands. I haven’t come upon that yet, but I have a nice selection of toys (the bullet is quick and to the point) and well, I write erotica so my imagination and my fingers are the only things I really need. Sometimes I’m in the mood for porn though and I might use one of our subscription sites to find something interesting.
But like I said, so far, it hasn’t come to that!
If you don’t masturbate, what do you do with all that sexual energy?
I’d like pour it into house cleaning. But I’d have to need to get rid of some serious pent up energy to resort to that!
Whether or not you’ve pleasure yourself, do you resent, ‘keep score’ or otherwise negatively note that your partner wouldn’t please you?
I hope that neither of us will ever get to that point. In my previous relationship it got to that for him and the more he kept score the tighter I closed my legs. Relationships aren’t about keeping score. I think if either couple begins to keep score it’s time to start talking.
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