Between the Sheets

May is masturbation month and I have to confess that I just remembered and am behind. I need to catch up!

One of the easiest and fastests ways for me to get off is in the shower. I used to have one of the wonderful shower heads that had multiple settings and the last one had three jet streams. That was awesome and was good for a real quickie! Now I don’t have it but a girl can make do if she has to.

I haven’t masturbated much in a long time because I have a partner who’s willing and ready to fulfill my needs at any given moment but I think I need to get back in touch with myself (so to speak!). My goals for Masturbation Month? To masturbate with my partner and to discover at least one new toy that I really like.

And here’s another thought - is it just my imagination or are guys masturbating less and girls masturbating more? It used to be that guys were the ones constantly jerking off in the stalls of their work office and girls were discreetly hiding it lest anyone find out. But I hear more and more guys proclaim, “I don’t masturbate!” as if it was a sign of weakness! It’s really not. Whether or not you have a partner, masturbation is a sign of healthy sexuality. Guys and girls should be jerking and jilling off to get to know themselves better and just because - well, it’s fun!

So, celebrate Masturbation Month. Find a cool toy or get in the shower and get wet or let your fingers do the walking. Have fun with it and NEVER be ashamed!

Reasons to Masturbate (as if we need them!)
From Betty Dodson:

Because masturbation is immensely pleasurable, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun.

Because masturbation proclaims that sex is good in, by, and for itself.

Because masturbation makes you a better lover.

Because you can have more sex more often.

Because sexual pleasure is each person’s birthright.

Because masturbation is the ultimate safe sex.

Because masturbation is a joyous expression of self love.

Because masturbation offers numerous health benefits including menstrual cramp relief, stress reduction, endorphin release, stronger pelvic muscles, reduction of prostate gland infection for men and resistance to yeast overgrowths for women.

Because masturbation is an excellent cardiovascular workout.

Because each person is their own best lover.

Because masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.

Because masturbation increases sexual awareness.