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It’s Thanksgiving. Who here is stuck at Mom and Dad’s house? *Raises hand*

Who here is horny?

…

*Raises hand*

If you’ve moved out of the ‘rents some time ago, chances are that you’ve got a few romps under your belt. However, when we travel back to Mom and Dad’s, it’s like traveling back in time. You’re once again that teenager that has to sneak around to get laid.

So sneak around.

If your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse/lover/etc is with you for the holidays, there’s no reason you can’t enjoy in some naughty nookie. That said, here are a few things to keep in mind:

• The shower is your friend. If your parents frown upon you having sex in their house, it can be hard to find a time and place when prying eyes won’t catch you. Use the excuse of showering to find some alone space.
• Be sensitive to the children in the house. Don’t corrupt anyone by screaming out “OH FUCK” as you’re getting nailed (or doing the nailing).
• Don’t have a holiday date? Take a moment for some self love.
• Change the sheets. If you aren’t going to play by mom and dad’s rules, at least have the decency to wash the smell of sex out of the sheets in the guest room before you leave.
• Don’t skip family activities to get it on. You’re with your family to spend time with them, not to spend time sneaking off to fuck. Come on, family time can be fun. That’s what the holidays are all about. Sex should be secondary.
• Go for a drive if you can’t find alone time. Romping at your old high school make out spot can be exciting.
• Having family over to your house? Invest in some bedroom door locks.
• Have sex because you want to have sex, not because you want to somehow “get back” at your parents’ strict rules. Sex is not about spite!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Do you have a tramp stamp?

God, what a horrible term for a tattoo. Tatties are sensual and edgy and sexy…but not trampy! Well, at least they don’t have to be. I have seen some sluttastic tattoos in my day. I’ve also seen some “bad decisions” on the body. Drinks and tattoos never go together well…

Ok, enough babbling. Tattoos can be really, really hot. It depends on your personal tastes. BUT if you’re going to go for some ink, here are a few things to keep in mind:

• Tattoos are permanent. I think it’s a good policy to take your time deciding what you want and where you want it. Once you pick out a design, think about it for 3-6 months before you get it.
• Make sure you go to a clean tattoo parlor for your “stamp.” If not, you won’t just be a tramp - you’ll be a tramp with some nasty diseases you got from unsterilized needles and ink.
• It’s ok to tell the artist no. Any artist will have ideas about size, colors, designs, etc, but ultimate, it is your body and your money. Don’t let someone talk you into something your don’t want.
• If you’re getting something in Chinese symbols, have someone who speaks and writers Chinese well actually translate it for you. Don’t get it from the Internet, which is usually not accurate.
• Tattoos hurt. Some hurt more and some hurt less. If you’re sensitive to pain, test out the needle with just water to make sure you can handle it.
• Professionally, you may need to hide your tats, so think about that when talking about placement with the artist.

• And my one last bit of advice? Don’t get your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/lover’s name (or a representation of them) on your body. Couples break up, so even if it seems like forever now, it might not be forever. If you want to get a name - get your child’s name or your mom’s name. Stay away from a “Wino Forever” mistakes!

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We all need to hear it once in awhile, don’t we? You are sexy. You are sooooo sexy. I want you.

From my bedroom window, I saw the girl next door prance down the walk and sling her purse into the car. She crawled in after it, her hair thrown up into a mess ponytail and her lightly tanned midriff peaking our under her light purple sweat suit. She had the sneakers. She had the ipod. She was definitely going to the gym. It wasn’t like she was all beautified to go to a part or even to work.

And yet, I had the urge to run out of my house, flag her down, get her to roll down the window, and whisper in her ear, “You are so sexy…”

I should have. We all need to hear it from time to time.

“Style” has nothing to do with it. Sexy isn’t about looks. It’s about that feeling, that burning, that I-want-to-fuck-you lust.

What is sexy to you, readers? When you see another woman or man, what makes you think “damnnnnn” ? When do your feel your sexiest?

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I write about sex. Often. If you’re read this blog habitually (not just because google spat you here today), than you probably write about sex too. And really, I could write a lot more eloquently than I do. But I don’t. Because this is real life people. Real life ain’t all that eloquent.

I do find myself coming back to certain works again and again, though. Why? Because they’re sexy. To me, at least. There are just some words that you can mummer and immediately I’ll feel wet and hot and ready to fuck.

Ok, well maybe not ready to fuck. Yet. But they’re a start.

Here’s my list of the top ten sexiest words. I’ll probably miss some and forget some…but off the top of my head, this is the good shit, right here. Fuck eloquent.

1. Thrust. (easily my favorite)
2. Drip.
3. Lap.
4. Force.
5. Fondle.
6. Grunt.
7. Quiver.
8. Hold.
9. Nipple.
10. Spread.
11. Kiss.
12. Cock.
13. Wet.
14. Gasp.
15. Tongue.

Am I painting a picture for you yet? Pick three words from that list. Any three.

Nipple. Quiver. Gasp. What did you imagine?

Wet. Thrust. Fondle. What did you imagine?

Tongue. Cock. Grunt. What did you imagine?

Like I said, fuck eloquent words. I can paint a picture with Drip. Force. Spread.

What are some of the words on your list?

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Some celebrities are definitely more open with their sexuality than others, but let’s face it - sex is a part of life, and with the exception of a few monks/nuns who have taken that vow of celibacy, everybody has sex at some point or another. And everyone talks about it at some point or another. Most of us just discuss sex with our best friends or significant other, but some celebs have talked about it during interviews. Here’s what they’ve had to say:

“From the moment I was six, I felt sexy. And let me tell you it was hell, sheer hell, waiting to do something about it.” - Bette Davis

“I need more sex, OK? Before I die I wanna taste everyone in the world.” - Angelina Jolie

“Good sex is like good bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.” - Mae West (or Woody Allen?)

“Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.” -former First Lady Barbara Bush

“I think people should be free to engage in any sexual practices they choose. They should draw the line at goats though” - Elton John

“It’s so long since I’ve had sex, I’ve forgotten who ties up whom.” - Joan Rivers

“Playboy was founded on the notion that nice girls like sex too.” - Hugh Hefner

“Being a sex symbol is a heavy load to carry, especially when one is tired, hurt and bewildered.” - Marilyn Monroe

“Sex is a bad thing because it rumples the clothes.” - Jacki O

“Remember, sex is like a Chinese dinner. It ain’t over ’til you both get your cookie.” - Alec Baldwin

“Kissing - and I mean like, yummy, smacking kissing - is the most delicious, most beautiful and passionate thing that two people can do, bar none. Better than sex, hands down.” - Drew Barrymore

“I’m a pretty open person. Like, if I have good sex, then the next day I’m going to tell everyone I know about it. ” - Melissa Joan Hart

“Trying to seduce an audience is the basis of rock ‘n roll, and if I may say so, I’m pretty good at it.” - Jon Bon Jovi

“Fifty percent of life in the NBA is sex. The other 50 percent is money.” - Dennis Rodman

“Sex is more exciting on the screen and between the pages than between the sheets.” - Andy Warhol

You can see more philosophies on sex here.

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This week, Between the Sheets is celebrating and end to sexual abuse by promoting sexual abuse awareness. There are many types of sexual abuse, but the trickiest subject of all, in my opinion, is domination. Is consensual domination a form of sexual abuse?

It doesn’t have to be, but it can be. The mind plays tricks on us sometimes and we tell ourselves that we’re happy when, in reality, we’re trapped by someone who says that he/she loves us. Not all dom/sub relationships are like that. Some are, but not all. However, as a sex blogger, I get a lot questions about the dynamics of any kind of BDSM relationship. I’m not a slave or master myself, so I interviewed one of my favorite bloggers about the topic. She’d like to remain anonymous, but I hope her answers can help shed a bit of light on domination.

Between the Sheets: We’ll start off with the simple questions: How long have you know your Master? Have you always been a slave? What’s your relationship like?

slave: i met my current Master at a BDSM club when i was slave to someone else. So, He wasn’t always my Master, but i was always a slave when i knew Him. Our relationship is very dynamic, but a bit different from some other couples i’ve met. We don’t usually take the “ownership” idea out of the sexual realm. As His slave, i do ask permission for just about everything, but he doesn’t have me do a lot in the way of humiliation. i can’t make my own choices. It’s mostly about submitting to Him sexually.

Wow, so you dumped a Master for a new Master?

Well, i wouldn’t say “dumped.” It was a mutual thing. My ex-Master and i didn’t see one another much (it was a long distance relationship - we met on the Internet), and at the time, i couldn’t even afford high-speed Internet, so sending pictures was hard. i was unhappy and so was He, because we both wanted something more, so i moved on with His blessing.

Did you have to ask permission to leave the relationship?

You know, i did…but i wouldn’t have had to. That’s the thing about a domination relationship. He was my Master, but at the same time i was my own person. Being a slave doesn’t make me an animal or something. It’s always consensual.

That’s pretty important, isn’t it?

Yes. i don’t think a dom/sub relationship can ever be considered successful unless the slave wants to be her (or his) Master’s slave. If a slave wants to break away, that would mean he/she isn’t a slave any longer. And anyone who isn’t a slave has legal rights.

You sounds like you know what you’re talking about.

Kind of. A friend of mine was in a situations as a slave where her Master was blatantly disrespectful of her in front of her son. That’s crossing the line. You don’t call your slave a cunt in front of a seven-year-old, even if she is a cunt. He would also ask her to do stuff, playing the Master card all the time. We’re not talking about sending naked pictures, we’re talking about buying him shit. Beyond that, he crossed the line in the bedroom too. One time, he met a stranger in the bar, tied her up, and had him fuck her without a condom. The mystery man gave her herpes. i’m actually glad that’s all he gave her. It could have been a scarier situation. But at least she got out, with some help from the police.

Why did she stay with him?

Why does anyone ever stay with anyone abusive? We pretend that we’re happy, and because there are good times, we overlook the bad. As a slave, that’s even harder for me. i have to always ask myself, “Is this something i want to do to make my Master happy or is this making me miserable?” Making my Master happy makes me happy! If it didn’t, though, i would think it would be time to move on. A dom/sub CAN BE ABUSIVE.

Thanks for the interview. Anything you want to add?

Just for everyone out there in a dom/sub relationship - don’t forget about yourself. It’s still a relationship and you’re still a person. you have the right to love and be loved. You have the right to be happy and say that you want out.

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Whenever I think about the seven deadly sins, my mind immediately wanders to the movie Se7en, starring Brad Pitt and sexy kitten Gwyneth Paltrow…so I had to include a picture of her for your viewing pleasure. Meow.

But enough about Gwynnie…let’s talk about the seven deadly sins, and how they relate to your sex life. Do you have a problem with pride? Sloth? Lust?

Over the next seven days, we’ll talk about the seven deadly sins and how to overcome them. Trust me, in one week, you’ll be having hotter sex with your leading lady or main man. And hotter sex? Well, that’s not a sin at all.

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No sooner had she said, “Would you please put your clothes back on before someone comes around the corner?” than he showed up.

Kaitlyn and I had been at the beach all afternoon and the sun was as hot as it could be expected to be in the middle of July. I loved to tease Kaitlyn because she could be a little uptight sometimes and I was always trying to get her to break out of her shell. So, since we were in an out of the way corner of the beach behind some huge brush I decided to have some fun with her.

I started off with just my bikini top undone. I asked her to put some lotion on my back and although she was a little uncomfortable, she did it anyway. Then she relaxed and forgot that I was undone and when started talking and laughing about the party we’d been to on the weekend.

When I got up to get something to drink out of the cooler I hadn’t forgotten that my top was undone but she had. She gasped with surprised as my breasts hung almost in her face when I reached over her. But she didn’t say anything yet. She knew I was trying to get a rise out of her.

So I decided to push it a little further. I took my bottoms right off.

“Shayna! What are you doing!”

“I hate tan lines,” I replied. “Just let me know if you see anyone coming.”

She was pretty nervous. That’s when she tried to convince me to put my clothes back on. And that’s when he walked around the brush and saw me prancing around in my birthday suit. She didnt’ know it, but it was my ex-boyfriend, Steve, and I’d actually planned to meet him here. But he didn’t know what was going to happen. That was very last minute.

Steve and I were still good friends and once in awhile, when neither of us were seeing anyone, we still got together for some sexy fun. When he saw my naked body, my pert breasts, and my perfect landing stripe, he got an instant hard on. He hadn’t seen Kaitlyn yet though, so he came over and started kissing me.

I made sure he was facing away from her and started pulling at his trunks. They came off pretty easily and I played with his dick.

“I want you now,” I whispered in his ear. And I slid down to my knees and starts licking an sucking at him.

As I peeked around his hips, I saw that Kaitlyn had disappeared but when I looked closer I saw her in the bushes. She was still watching.

I laid him down on my towel and mounted him, reverse cowgirl so that I could see Kaitlyn wathcing us. Kaitlyn didn’t move her eyes from us when I slid onto his cock with slow deliberate movements. And she didn’t stop watching when her fingers slid into the bottom of her bathing suit.

As I rode him I picked up the pace faster than usual because although I was getting a kick out of watching Kaitlyn get off on watching us I didn’t want to get caught my the authorities and get arrested. I pinched my nipples with one hand and played with my clit with the other hand.

All of a sudden, Kaitlyn was moaning louder than she should have been in a public place and Steve was cumming. I think he thought it was me that came because when I came for real he was a little surprised.

Some people think that ladies are the only ones who need fantasies to get aroused but guys have fantasies too, and they aren’t always the hard core variety. Some guys get hard for red heads, some have a thing for feet. And since we can’t always be a perfect fantasy sometimes we can look to props for feeding our partner’s dreams.

If you’re guy or gal has a thing for piercings and has been asking you to get your nipples pierced, you don’t necessarily need to run out to the nearest piercing parlor and get some new holes. You can try it out for size and see if you like it as well before you take the big step. There are many types of play piercing jewlery that can test out the waters first.

Precious Gems Nipple Rings is just one of the products that are available for play piercing. These nipple rings require no pierced body parts and are fun for play. They look pretty hot and if you don’t like the look or the feel of them you can go back to your unadorned, natural body. They are lightweight and adjustable so you won’t be uncomfortable. And who knows, maybe after looking at your decorated breasts for a bit you might decide to go the whole way.

You know, I did get my nipples pierced without trying play piercings first. I won’t say I regretted it because I didn’t but it would have been nice to know that option was there first. I likely would have gone ahead and done it anyway because I felt that they were a great enhancement. I still love the way they look and I love knowing that I have a naughty little secret that not everyone knows about.

So, you’ve been trying to convince your girl that a little backdoor lovin’ is just what you need to take your sexcapades to the next level? Well, trust me hon - if you can give her some solid ways that you’re going to make this good for her too then you’re going to get no where. She needs to know that you’re not going to just stick it in and go to town. She needs to know that you have some idea of what you’re doing.

And you gotta know what you’re doing from her point of view. Education is great but if you’re only looking out for yourself then you don’t deserve the pleasure of her tightest space.

Tell her you want this to be good for her and that you’ve done some research and then send her to some of these places:

Anal Sex Tips For Women: This place is filled with advice for women that are considering anal sex from women who’ve already been there. Advice like using lube, starting with cunninglingus and fingers or small toys, getting relaxed, and lots of pre-talk.

First Time Stories: These are first time anal sex stories that will give her an idea of what it can really be like. As a bonus, they might turn her on and get her imagination working overtime. Being excited about it makes it so much more pleasureable.

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